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Do women really love?

I suddenly realize that most (if not all) my ex-gf have removed my phone number (and messenger IDs) from their lists.

(Here I define my ex-gf as someone who had been going out with me for a certain period of time, in the past. So it's, hm, a broad definition)

Due to the broad nature of the definition, most of those are still being my friends, which means we chit chat quite frequently. That (used to) makes me think we are still good, in many senses. Should they ask for help, I help, as a 'good' friend.

And they've dumped my number for long.

Well, this is not a story about the phone number, it's a story about whatever between you and your ex, and it's about while you (men) tend to keep the memory, emotion and certain things about the relationship for quite sometime, women dump it right at the minute you two say goodbye.

And if you two ever come back to each other, she will get those information again, from you, like any new relationship.

I wonder, why they dump it so fast? Because they don't really love, and to them, love is like, a switch, turning off completely anytime they want?

Or just because they love too much, and try to help themselves to ease the pain?

I sincerely hope it's the latter.
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gwens83
Or because they see love in a different way than you do, as simple as that.
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gwens83
Ah and btw i dont remove any from my ex-es' numbers, yet I guess I can understand how women generally do.
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goldensea80
I had a fun chat with a Japanese guy about the issue, a girl tends to thịnk of just one boy at a time - her current bf, by we (boys) still fantasize about our ex Not sure if that's true but that can explain
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gwens83
@goldensea80: Those are typical male expectations. Boys often have this romantic idea of girls being able to think of only one guy at a time so that if a boy is a girl's BF he'll then be her Absolute King ^^
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goldensea80
@gwens83: So, does that mean the expectations are wrong?
Maybe it's true to some extent, at least in Eastern countries and old fashioned people. They seems to be cultural thinkings.
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gwens83
If the society can make women believe it then it's true. The day girls start to doubt it then really it s not true anymore. So try to keep girls brainwashed as long as possible boys
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goldensea80
No no no! No I don't want my ex forget all about me
Librate yourself, girls!
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gwens83
Point is that even if she has the right to think of other guys than her BF, nothing guarantees she'll be thinking of you. ... whereas your actual GF may be now thinking of some other guy than you
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goldensea80
That's fair! I don't want others interfere my thought, and others' thoughts either.
By the way, my ex haven't removed my contact, yet
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gwens83
Congrats. Btw, hope for the best, prepare for the worst dear
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goldensea80
I always prapare for the worst, love
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